Is It Time to Change Course in Your Custody Case? – Episode 220 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting different results. Yet, we often see people make this mistake in their Court case. If you aren’t getting the results you want, maybe it’s time to change course. But, you don’t want to change course randomly, you need to have a specific, planned path from where you are now to where you want to be in your case. For more information, please visit us at www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!
i wish he would change his course. He keeps saying to me, “you need to go to the courthouse and say you want to change the timesharing schedule and give me overnights”. I researched, it seems as though there has to be significant changes in regards to what was ordered… and nothing has changed in the 4 months since the order. Yes my son wants to see his dad more, which he could… just no overnights… Yet, there has been more than one instance in the past 4 months, where 6 yr old son is on the phone with dad and dad is saying things to son about me (mom) that should not be said to a child. I arrived to pick son up and he came to the car crying hysterically, telling me to get away from him, he wanted to stay the night at dads! Since i have stopped offering ‘additional time’ because as much as son wants to see dad more, whatever is happening or being said is putting 6 yr old son in a more upsetting position. Dad has refused all offerings of additional time that i was previously offering. Dad is still angry. “There are concerns of fathers living arrangements”… which i did not completely understand, other than he has a room mate that is a convicted felon, but father has a past of being convicted as well. Father had just moved into his new residence, and it is suitable. I do not know. But i do know that son is not breaking down emotionally like he was before there were no overnights ordered. In hopes for a better situation for all involved in the future.