No Pain, No Gain – in Episode 98 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about that famous saying we’ve all heard “no pain, no gain”. During divorce, no doubt we have all experienced emotional pain. But are there benefits to that pain? Where can we find the “gain”? Join us as we help

Can I Save This Marriage? – in Episode 97 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about saving marriages and what situations or behaviors lead to a struggling marriage. We dive into our own experience in our marriage that is successful and our past marriages that have ended. It takes two people to have

Using Humor to Help You Have Difficult Conversations – In Episode 96, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about using humor in certain situations to help lower conflict and stress in difficult conversations. We know divorce isn’t exactly a funny topic, but as the old saying goes, if you don’t laugh, you’ll cry.

How to Get the Best Result in Divorce Mediation – In Episode 95, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk divorce mediation. Mediation is a great alternative to the typical divorce process and mediation nearly always succeeds in resolving the issues if you have a skilled, knowledgeable mediator. An experienced mediator can provide you

When Should I Introduce My Kids to My New Mate? – In Episode 94, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk new mates. People often ask about if, when, and how they should introduce new mates to their children. We find that ex-spouses often disagree on this issue and new mates often create a

7 Tips to Deal with Uncertainty – In Episode 93, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about uncertainty, which most people find to be an uncomfortable feeling. Uncertainty often accompanies change and as you know, divorce is all about change, and lot’s of it! So, how do you deal with uncertainty when your

Can This Marriage Be Saved? – In Episode 92, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about the possibility of saving marriage even though it’s been pushed to the brink of divorce. In a large percentage of cases, one spouse does not want the divorce. But can your marriage be saved or are you

Are You Ready For Your Court-Sponsored Child Custody Mediation? – In Episode 91, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about child custody mediation that is conducted by the Court, not a private mediator. Whether your Court system keeps the mediation private or has the mediator report to the Judge, there are certain things

Difficult Conversations – In Episode 90, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about the difficult conversations that are often part of divorce. Maybe you are making “the announcement” or maybe your negotiating finances or a parenting schedule. Or maybe, you need to talk about the difficulty one of your children is having. Regardless,