Where Will You Be in 5 Years? – Episode 140 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. This is a question we often see asked in job interviews or in self-development environments. And, how can you use this wisdom in your divorce or separation to help guide you to better decisions? Future focus is the lens
Should I Stay or Should I Go? – Episode 139 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Almost all of us struggle with the decision to divorce. Often, it takes years to make the decision and even after it’s made, we wonder if they did the right thing. But there are patterns in certain relationships that
Financial Security After Divorce – Episode 138 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Financial hardship is a struggle almost everyone has after divorce. But there are six simple rules for solving many of these struggles if you’re willing to put in the work. It won’t be easy but it will be worth it. Let’s dive
Co-Parenting Chaos – Episode 137 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Many times co-parents have trouble achieving peace in their relationship, especially the first couple of years after the split. And yet, studies show conflict is the worst thing for your children. And, if you’re dealing with an unstable co-parent that peace can seem totally
Self Focus vs. Ex Focus – Episode 136 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. During a divorce, it’s so important for us to practice self-care and to focus on ourselves, sometimes for the first time in a long time. But many of us get caught in the trap of being hyper-focused on everything our ex
It’s Only Words – Episode 135 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Remember when we’re kids and a common phrase was “stick and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me”. It seems in adulthood, we’ve forgotten this lesson. Divorce brings many words of anger that can’t be taken back. We spend
What Does the Court Want From You? – Episode 134 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Many people have the experience of going into Court and not getting the result they want in their divorce or child custody case. As we heard one Judge put it, “Half of you are going to lose”. Not great
This Too Shall Pass – Episode 133 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When you’re going through a crisis like a divorce or a breakup it can feel like the emotional pain will never end. The stress, grief, anger, and other emotions become the daily normal with no end in sight. But it will end
STEP FIVE: Don’t Allow Other People to Knock You Off Track – Episode 132 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. You are often your own worst enemy in your own progress. But others can also slow our progress even though they have the best of intentions. Divorce is a time for you to focus on