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Using Humor to Help You Have Difficult Conversations – In Episode 96, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about using humor in certain situations to help lower conflict and stress in difficult conversations. We know divorce isn’t exactly a funny topic, but as the old saying goes, if you don’t laugh, you’ll cry. […]

How to Get the Best Result in Divorce Mediation – In Episode 95, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk divorce mediation. Mediation is a great alternative to the typical divorce process and mediation nearly always succeeds in resolving the issues if you have a skilled, knowledgeable mediator. An experienced mediator can provide you

When Should I Introduce My Kids to My New Mate? – In Episode 94, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk new mates. People often ask about if, when, and how they should introduce new mates to their children. We find that ex-spouses often disagree on this issue and new mates often create a

7 Tips to Deal with Uncertainty – In Episode 93, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about uncertainty, which most people find to be an uncomfortable feeling. Uncertainty often accompanies change and as you know, divorce is all about change, and lot’s of it! So, how do you deal with uncertainty when your

Can This Marriage Be Saved? – In Episode 92, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about the possibility of saving marriage even though it’s been pushed to the brink of divorce. In a large percentage of cases, one spouse does not want the divorce. But can your marriage be saved or are you

Are You Ready For Your Court-Sponsored Child Custody Mediation? – In Episode 91, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about child custody mediation that is conducted by the Court, not a private mediator. Whether your Court system keeps the mediation private or has the mediator report to the Judge, there are certain things

Difficult Conversations – In Episode 90, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about the difficult conversations that are often part of divorce. Maybe you are making “the announcement” or maybe your negotiating finances or a parenting schedule. Or maybe, you need to talk about the difficulty one of your children is having. Regardless,

It All Starts With Your Thoughts – In Episode 89, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we dive inward to look at common internal thoughts people have during a divorce or breakup. Your thoughts can often be your own worst enemy. They can lead you to say and do things that hurt you, your ex,

Co-Parents! Written Communication Is Better – In Episode 88, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about why it is imperative for co-parents to use written communication. This is especially important if you have a high-conflict relationship with your ex. Written communication can even give you an advantage in your Court case, if you